Role Models

Lou Gehrig Farewell speechOn the TunneySide of Sports October 11, 2021 #869 Up next… Role Models

The 2021 Major League Baseball regular season began on April 1 and ended on Oct. 3. This is the final season of the Cleveland Indians competing with that 106-year-old nickname, a name they have used since 1915. Going into the 2022 season they will be known as the Cleveland Guardians. It’s a new era for Cleveland baseball and we wish them well.

Recently I went back through my TunneySide archives and came across what is probably my favorite baseball memory in “A Classic Baseball Story” where I unabashedly share my lifelong loyalty to the New York Yankees. As a kid, I would listen on the radio to the Yankee broadcasts each night before going to bed.

This column was so important to me then, and now, that I am going to beg your indulgence as I share it again.  There are some men and sports figures who are just bigger than life and the role model they provided us then, and now, should never be forgotten. For me, one of those men is the inestimable Lou Gehrig, known as “The Iron Horse”

My admiration for Babe Ruth, Joe DiMaggio, Lou Gehrig, and that team still stands tall in my mind. Gehrig, the Yankee’s first baseman played 17 years – his entire career – for New York. Why would he want to play elsewhere? He was nicknamed “The Iron Horse” for his strength and durability. However, what separated Gehrig may be his retirement speech as death was approaching, due to ALS (Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis) – now called “Lou Gehrig Disease.”

It was 1937, Gehrig was in Chicago where the Yankees were to play the White Sox. A friend asked Lou to pay a visit to a 10-year boy, named Tim, who was in the hospital stricken with polio. Tim was refusing to try therapy. Gehrig was Tim’s hero and Tim’s parents hoped a visit would encourage Tim to go to therapy. Gehrig made that visit and said to Tim, “I want you to get well. Go to therapy and learn to walk again.” Tim said, “Lou, if you will knock a homer for me today, I will go to therapy and learn to walk again.” Lou promised.

Although Gehrig had a career 493 home runs, this request came during the last two years of his career and home runs were not as easy to come by as they are in today’s game. The pressure was mounting as Gehrig rode to the ballpark, yet he felt a deep sense of obligation along with his apprehension. Well, Lou didn’t knock one home run that day. He knocked two!

A short two years later when ALS was taking the life out of the old iron horse the Yankees held a Lou Gehrig Day on July 4, 1939. Yankee Stadium was packed with every dignitary possible. As Lou stepped to the microphone, Tim, now 12, walked out of the Yankees dugout, dropped his crutches, and, with leg braces, walked toward Lou at home plate and hugged him.

That’s what Gehrig meant when he said those immortal words. “Today, I consider myself the luckiest man on the face of the earth.”

Who will you be a role model to?

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Jim’s books include many messages about rules and regulations (remember he was a referee). His bobblehead on your desk or shelf will be a treasure in your office or home.

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To contact Jim, go to www.jimtunney.com  or email jim@jimtunney.com.

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Looking into ‘LFG’

On the TunneySide of Sports October 4, 2021 #868 Up next… Looking into ‘LFG’

As a writer, I continue to look for new stories. So, when I saw the above three letters (LFG) I did some research to discover their meaning. There’s more than one. In gaming, LFG is widely used in chat form for online communication with the meaning “looking for group” to indicate that a user or subscriber is seeking to join an already established group. In text messaging, LFG probably indicates impatience or enthusiasm on the part of the sender to start doing something. The “F” is a word that I will omit here, but we certainly hear it all too often.

Tom Brady, quarterback of the NFL champion Tampa Bay Bucs, has used LFG in “firing-up” his teammates. Megan Rapinoe has used LFG with the United States Women’s National Soccer Team, who clinched victory in the 2019 World Cup. While I would argue that both Brady and Rapinoe could have used a more acceptable adjective to spark enthusiasm, the use of that “F” word is (unfortunately) more popular in today’s youthful vocabulary. Right or wrong, it does get attention.

After that 2019 World Cup, the hue and cry was “equal pay!” “equal pay!” “equal pay!” not only from Rapinoe and other women on that T*E*A*M, but from voices heard round-the-world. The U.S. World Cup team headed by Rapinoe has won four World Cup titles and four Olympic gold medals thereby being the most accomplished and successful team in the history of international sports. It is reported that players on the women’s team earn 89 cents on the dollar compared to the $1 earned by the men’s team. Plus, the men’s team players earn almost double in bonuses. “Not fair” is a cry from the women.

I would argue for the women but change the “F” word to “F A I R” as in fair pay for the women’s team, win or lose — but not equal. I have often believed: “There is nothing so unequal as the equal treatment of unequals.” While some may argue that the size of women’s and men’s soccer fields, and soccer balls as well as number of players on each are the same, it still doesn’t make them equal. The level of play and intensity is different. That’s not to say there is less intensity in the women’s game, it’s just different.  Not so incidentally, the U.S. Open tennis played in Flushing Meadows, Queens, New York, last month awarded both the women’s and men’s champions each $2.5 million for their wins!

Will you log in with your thoughts about equal pay?

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Jim’s books include many messages about rules and regulations (remember he was a referee). His bobblehead on your desk or shelf will be a treasure in your office or home.

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To contact Jim, go to www.jimtunney.com  or email jim@jimtunney.com.

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A Tribute To My Brother Peter Tunney

Peter Tunney

Peter Tunney

On the TunneySide of Sports September 27, 2021 #867 Up next… A Tribute to My Brother Peter Tunney

After further review… When I began writing these weekly columns for the Monterey Herald some 16 years ago, my intent was – and still is – writing about issues in sports that can be used or transformed into positive messages as examples to help others. I have been sending that blog worldwide. I promised myself to avoid personal examples. An exception takes place with today’s column/blog to pay tribute to my younger brother, Peter W.Tunney.

We both come from a sports family and I wanted to be the best athlete in our family. However, early in my life, I learned that my father, James J. Tunney (Jim Sr.) was a three-star athlete at Loyola High School (L.A.) and the same at Loyola College where he was a captain in three sports.  Upon college graduation, he played a year of professional baseball. Well … being second in our family wasn’t so bad.

In August 1938 our family moved to 439 No. Daroca in San Gabriel. I helped Dad load our rented trailer (several times) as we moved from East Los Angeles to San Gabriel on Aug. 5, 1938. My brother Pete was born on Aug. 6! Can you imagine the burden on my mom? I told you we were an athletic family and that includes my two sisters – Josie and Loretta. Love them all.

You could tell early on that Pete was going to be a good – no, great – athlete! When he was 3 or 4, I would have Pete race kids who were 5, 6, 7 from one lamppost to the other and he beat them all. Pete could “chin” himself more times than any of the others. In high school, Pete played football at Alhambra High. He was a captain on every team. As a senior playing tailback, he broke his leg and thus was out all season until the final game when Alhambra was the CIF champ! Pete also ran track at Alhambra, and boy did he!

It was Pete’s time in the 100-yard dash (9.7 seconds) that caught the eye of Payton Jordan, track coach at Occidental College. Jordan recruited Pete to Oxy in the summer of 1956. However, Jordan left to coach Stanford, but told me later that he “never could beat that Oxy team he had recruited.” Pete played frosh football and three years of varsity. It was sort of a single-wing formation with Pete carrying the ball almost every time. Pete was also Oxy’s star sprinter with that 9.7 100. Now I was third in my family!

In the spring of 1960, Pete was invited to lunch with a Detroit Lions scout who said the Lions were going to draft Pete as their first running back in the 1960 draft. Pete was ecstatic, then hustled back to Oxy. Later that same afternoon,  he was doing his on-campus job of dragging the track when the vehicle on which he was riding hit an unexpected bump and threw him off, running over his leg, tearing his femoral artery. He never ran again. Football affected his life with Lewy Body Dementia and Parkinson’s Syndrome, but he never gave up!

As a physical education major, he could only get a job in Corrective PE, which he did for four years. He then moved on to racing. He started by hot-walking horses; then worked his way up to be general manager of Golden Gate Fields for 30 years.

Pete died last week at 83. He’s home now!

Thank you for allowing me to say God Bless to my brother – a man I admired for more than eight decades.

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Jim’s books include many messages about rules and regulations (remember he was a referee). His bobblehead on your desk or shelf will be a treasure in your office or home. A special July 4th offer (I know it’s over) Bobblehead for $30. (tax and shipping included) and one book of your choice.

To contact Jim, go to www.jimtunney.com  or email jim@jimtunney.com.

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