On the TunneySide of Sports November 22, 2021 #875 Up next… On Trash Talking
I grew up on playgrounds, fields, and streets and have always felt very much at home there. I was lucky. There were no video games, no cell phones where you could actually see the person to whom you were speaking. “Log-in?” Huh? You had to go next door and ask his mom if Billy could “come out and play?” We didn’t talk much on the phone but created games to play – in the streets.
My dad helped nurture my feelings of comfort through sports and taught me a lot about people and relationships. As an example, Dad was in the stands at one of my high school baseball games when I was on first base and happened to say a word to my opponent who had been a long-time pal but was now on the opposing team. I got “picked off” – “Out!’ said the umpire. I learned a lesson.
There are two sides to most issues as well as this one. One is the talk that comes from long-time friendships with former players. The other is “trash talk” that may be intended to rile up an opponent. The latter has no place in sports. Yet, I see it in some of the most competitive athletes – pro golfers are one example. This sport is such that seldom do fisticuffs result from that. The pro golfing spat between Brooks Koepka – Bryson DeChambeau in 2021 could have been settled without its publicity.
As an NFL referee for 31 years, I heard trash talk all too often. In this 2021 season the NFL instituted a rule: if players are taunting an opponent, which usually starts with trash-talking or other insulting remarks, it calls for an unsportsmanlike conduct penalty (15 yards). Further unsportsmanlike actions call for disqualification. It was always my intention on the field to shut off talking but keep the player in the game. Sometimes it is beyond that limit and the player(s) must be disqualified. Do you go to games to see/hear players trash talk/fight/or be kicked out?
Most dictionaries define the word “trash” as junk, or litter, or severely criticize. What value does that add to any game? Further, what example does it send to younger players who see their “heroes”(?) take that approach? I guess you’ve heard me say that before!
Will you encourage others to treat players (people) with decency?
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