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On The TunneySide of Sports March 12, 2018 #683 Up next…Parenting

After further review…”Parenting is the most neglected, uneducated, misunderstood contributing factor in the economic and moral corruption of American culture.” Denzel Washington offers, “So, you know, I can’t blame the system. It starts in the home. If the father is not in the home, the boy will find a father in the streets. I saw it in my generation and every generation before me – and everyone since.” The first quote is a statement by Stan Morrison, a former Cal athlete and former head basketball coach at University of Pacific, University of Southern California, and San Jose State University. This writer is in full agreement with both! Here’s a story about a current college athlete who benefitted from positive parenting

When my sons Mike and Mark were playing Little League baseball in South Pasadena, CA., Gordy Bohannon was also playing in the same league. My boys recognized that Bohannon was a superior athlete as he moved on to quarterback the South Pas Tigers. Upon graduation he enrolled at Iowa and quarterbacked the Hawkeyes, taking them to a Rose Bowl game in 1981 defeating the Washington Huskies. Iowa? What happened to USC and UCLA in his backyard?

Gordy Bohannon remained in Iowa City as he and Brenda raised four sons – Jason, Zach, Matt and Jordan. All four sons played basketball for the Hawkeyes. Jordan, now a sophomore (# 3 in your program), is who this blog is all about. “My entire life, said Jordan, I’ve been thrown in the back of the car, traveling around the country watching my brothers play. All those times, when I was younger, have really helped me growing up, how I got here and who I am.” Maybe this story that happened last month will explain how Jordan got to where he is today.

Playing against Northwestern, sophomore Iowa point guard Jordan Bohannon had a chance to break the Hawkeye record of 34 consecutive free throws set by the late Chris Street. Street, a Hawkeye basketball legend, and potentially an NBA player at 6’8” 220 lbs. was tragically killed in an auto accident 25 years ago. Jordan had planned with older brother Zach that if he got to the point of breaking Street’s record, he would not make that free throw. As Jordan stepped to the line in that Northwestern game with his 34 free throws “in the books,” he looked to Zach in the stands, then pointed skyward to recognize Street, and intentionally “throws up a brick” missing the shot that would have broken Street’s record.

After the game, which Iowa won, the media were all over Jordan asking if he intentionally missed that free throw? Jordan’s response: “It’s not my record to have – it belongs in his (Chris Street) name.” Iowa? Isn’t that where “Field of Dreams” took place?

Will log-in your thoughts about the importance of parenting in today’s environment?

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These TunneySides take issues from real-life situations and relate them as inspiration for the betterment of others.

Jim is available for speaking engagements on leadership and T*E*A*M Building. His books are available for $20 which includes shipping and tax. The Tunney Bobblehead is available for $30. Please visit JimTunney.comThank you!

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In Need of a Moral Compass!

In need of a moral compass by Jim TunneyOn The TunneySide of Sports March 5,  2018 #682Up next…In Need of a Moral Compass!

After further review…As we enter what is known as “March Madness” we find an odd meaning to the word madness. With Rick Pitino out as the University of Louisville basketball coach due to an alleged recruiting scandal along and some 20 Division I colleges mentioned in an FBI investigation, will the madness make it through the month of March? Division I basketball has been operating under suspicious recruiting for many years. How will it get turned around?

While Pitino seems to capture the college basketball headlines, one can’t help but wonder who’s next?  This comes at a time when college basketball programs, their students, alumni, and fans look forward to an exciting March Madness. It certainly casts a shadow on college basketball. These investigations are not new. I’m sure Dr. Jim Naismith didn’t have to deal with this after he hung that peach basket on the barn door; but I know that during the time that I officiated college basketball at the Division I level, accusations and convictions took place. Remember the Coach Clair Bee scandal at Long Island University in the 1950s?

Incentives in recruiting college players in all sports have been in existence for decades, and undoubtedly will continue. And for what reason? The obvious answer can perhaps be found in the words pride and greed. Winning at all costs is the most plausible answer to those two deadly sins. Pride: “I want to be a winning coach no matter what the price.” Pride goeth before the fall sayeth the good book. Now I don’t want to get too biblical here, but the character of those involved in recruiting is vital to developing character in the athlete, which ought to be fundamental in a college education. The athlete will be in college for only a short time, but his life will be “forever.”

The greed in creating a winning T*E*A*M or a winning record can be a coach’s downfall. It is often said “There can be no success without fulfillment.” Maybe Bum Philips, former Houston Oilers head football coach, put it best, when he said about who’s a good coach: “He’s one who can take hisn and beat yourn; then take yourn and beat hisn!” I’ve worked with a lot of coaches in the sports world and admired those whose character I respected, whatever their record.

Will you log-in on coaches and/or athletes you stood for their character?

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To contact Jim, go to JimTunney.com or email Jim@JimTunney.com.

NEW: Jim’s new Podcast ‘TunneySide of Sports’ will be up and running shortly. Stay tuned. Meanwhile, he is available for speaking engagements. His bobblehead and books are listed on his website.

Jim’s books are full of inspiration and interesting stories. Please visit his online store to learn more.

Another 101 Best of TunneySide of Sports

Be sure to get Jim’s book ‘Another 101 Best of TunneySide of Sports’ by clicking this link or using the email above to contact Jim directly.

These TunneySides take issues from real-life situations and relate them as inspiration for the betterment of others.

Jim is available for speaking engagements on leadership and T*E*A*M Building. His books are available for $20 which includes shipping and tax. The Tunney Bobblehead is available for $30. Please visit JimTunney.comThank you!

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Old School

George-22Meadowlark22-LemonOn The TunneySide of Sports February 26,  2018 #681 Up next…”Old School”

After further review…A recent news story reported that a rookie NBA player is charging $199 for an autograph. It caught my attention. This player is less than one year from playing at the college level yet is drawing attention. We will allow him some anonymity since he is personally unknown to this writer. The article also contained information that he will not allow “selfies” or signing other memorabilia that an autograph seeker might request.

There are promoters who bring established athletes together for autograph sessions. Promoters charge a fee for those seeking autographs, and the athletes receive remuneration for their time, signatures and/or photos with the fans. Most always these athletes are well-known and retired from their playing days. But a rookie? Granted, in today’s sport’s world anybody with any kind of notoriety – good or bad – seems to draw a fan’s attention.

Some athletes disdain, avoid and are even rude to autograph seekers. Too bad. And yet, taking the side of those athletes, one must admit that they are often interrupted from their daily routines; e.g., shopping in a store or eating in a restaurant and the like. Let athletes be reminded that avoiding or ignoring autograph seekers, especially the young, is the wrong way to go. But, perhaps, that’s just “old school.”

Probably as well-known as the best of athletes was Harlem Globetrotter, Meadowlark Lemon. He tells the story on himself of a man carrying his young daughter, age 6. The Globetrotters had just finished a game and were at a black-only diner getting something to eat, when this fan approached Meadowlark and said, “My daughter wanted to meet you and give you a hug and a kiss. She loves you.” Granting her wish Meadowlark said, “Well, thank you, sweetheart. That’s nice.” The father said, “No, thank you Meadowlark. She has an illness and is dying.”

Maybe it’s “old school,” but we remind teachers, who may have a disruptive student in their classroom: how do we know that one day that student might just be the doctor who saves that teacher’s life? The kindness shown to others has its rewards. For athletes their fame is fleeting. And while their life in the limelight may last only a little while, they have a duty to be kind – even to those who are not mindful of their privacy.

Will you respect the value of another even though they may ignore yours?

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To contact Jim, go to JimTunney.com or email Jim@JimTunney.com.

NEW: Jim’s new Podcast ‘TunneySide of Sports’ will be up and running shortly. Stay tuned. Meanwhile, he is available for speaking engagements. His bobblehead and books are listed on his website.

Jim’s books are full of inspiration and interesting stories. Please visit his online store to learn more.

Another 101 Best of TunneySide of Sports

Be sure to get Jim’s book ‘Another 101 Best of TunneySide of Sports’ by clicking this link or using the email above to contact Jim directly.

These TunneySides take issues from real-life situations and relate them as inspiration for the betterment of others.

Jim is available for speaking engagements on leadership and T*E*A*M Building. His books are available for $20 which includes shipping and tax. The Tunney Bobblehead is available for $30. Please visit JimTunney.comThank you!

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